Selfish Mindset

SCARS 💙 | Scarred-Self  See the symbolism in your scars. Let you wounds represent your willingness. Ask yourself, “What do my scars represent?” "My scars represent my sacrifice, not my suffering. My scars represent my courage, not my weakness. They are survival wounds. Wounds of battle. Wounds of a triumph. Wounds I am not embarrassed about. I am a warrior. I put up a fight, a fight for freedom, a fight for equality, a fight for respect, a fight for my health, a fight for my family, a fight for my life. I’ve been challenged. I’ve been compromised. I’ve been called out of my name. Yet I remain a warrior. I didn’t quit. I didn’t give up. I’ve been through and I’ve came through. My scars are a symbol of hope. My scars are a symbol of strength. My scars are a symbol of my truth. My scars are a symbol of my story. My scars are a symbol of me." This affirmation is a testament of overcoming and having survived a battle, but not limited to a current circumstance in which YOU WILL al

VALUE 💙 | Self-Value  Know your importance and recognize your capabilities. Your value is in your mind and in your heart. It is your protection from anything you don't agree to be engaged with. Place value upon yourself first, everything else will fall in order. It's okay to feel good about yourself. Be happy about living. Be excited and ready for life's surprises as you would for your favorite food. You know the feeling 😝. When life throws us a curveball, it's not for us to feel less than. It's in fact for us to increase our beliefs within ourselves and push forward. Pick up the ball and throw it back. Value yourself as if it was a deadly decision. You only have yourself to impress. You must get used to fulfilling your own self with hope and worthiness. Tell yourself everyday: I am valuable. I am loved. I am wanted. If I can think it, I can experience it because I believe in myself. 

EXCELLENCE 💙 | Self-Excellence  Live at your best level of self. Surround yourself with excellent souls. Be excellent together. Share your energy. Embrace the beauty of becoming better than you were before and better than you were yesterday. No one can take your growth away from you. You know where you started and where you are now are at two different places on a map. You are excellent for moving forward. You are excellent for overcoming. You are excellent for pushing through. You are excellent for making the best decisions for you. All of those strengths granted you the position you are in now.  Be proud of yourself. NO matter how small. NO matter how large. Your excellence is your excellence!  "Do not ever let anyone make you feel like you don't matter, or make you feel like you don't have a place in our American Story because you do. And you have a right to be exactly who you are."  - Michelle Obama

CHALLENGE 💙 | Self-Challenge  Are we making the most out of our lives? Why do we worry about what other people have going in their lives? Sometimes this concern with others is the very reason why we are behind in our own lives. We must learn to challenge ourselves. We can change our own lives if we put as much energy towards our attitudes and behaviors.  Self challenge is setting limitless goals for yourself (which is not confined by your surroundings). It's a challenge outside of your normal bounds aiming to strengthen your greatness. It's the want to change; It's the want to do more; It's the want to do better. You should only compete with yourself, not anyone else. Focus on managing the issues in your own life. Newsflash: 💬Everyone has problems. No matter what it may seem like, each person is dealing with something. We process life's difficulties at our own rate and in our own way. A person appearing happy doesn't correlate they aren't dealing with anyt

BEAUTY 💙 | Self-Beauty  Be happy with your beauty, love yourself, and own who you are! You are truly beautiful. If someone says anything differently why should you have to believe it? Know your beauty is everything. Know you are beautiful regardless; regardless of stress, regardless of hardships, regardless of struggles, you are still beautiful. True beauty lives on the inside, anything else is a compliment. Beauty is a part of who you are. You are beautiful because you are you. You are beautiful because you imperfect. You are beautiful because you are flawed. You are beautiful simply because you were created. You have been personally beautified, deal with it 😃  No one can take your beauty away from you. Life is more beautiful with you in it. Be your own beautifully exceptional self! "Beauty residing on the inside is an accomplishment, while beauty displayed on the outside is a compliment. Rise up, don't hide. Show off your beautiful side with boldness and pride. Allow your

WORTH 💙 | Self-Worth  Self worth is a personal evaluation of your own self. What you think about yourself is how you will feel about yourself. Your feelings then become your attitude followed by your behavior. Be the mastermind of valued self, know your worth. Stand for what you believe in and believe in what you stand for. Live boldly in your purpose knowing you are somebody! What you think matters. Choose to think highly of yourself...Hello Confidence 😁 When you are feeling down, turn your feelings around, eliminate your frown, and put on your crown. YOU ARE SOMEBODY 👍